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Sunday 21 September 2014

Your Job Does Not Define Your Character....!

                            Do You Think Your Job
                           Defines Your Character??? 


Am sure you all must have seen Dhoom 3 Where in Amir Khan plays a role of a magician...And what is Magic..Nothing just a trick you amaze you or fool you... So Do you think Magician by nature keep fooling people for their benefits? How about a cruel butcher,who feeds the goat and then with loads of love brings the same goat dragging all the way to simply slit its throat and make
some money for him and his family.So do you think the same butcher behaves that lovingly and immediately becomes cruel in his real life also..? Well there are many more examples you can think of .For a change lets take a case of those Male strippers who do give little bit of entertainment to the ladies and sometimes even those men who have same taste.So again the same question arises.Do you think apart from earning he would always do that for fun? Or Do you think he can never love some one truly and earn honestly?

No right? Then How do people come to a conclusion about nature,character ,style of living and what not just by knowing the profession of an individual? You say one should never be judgemental and at the same time you do the same.
Its not important that the girl who is working in night shifts would be available for a man's entertainment,She is doing her job and her job is to earn for herself.This does not opens her up for something which she does not want.It is no free invitation to those hungry men outside who simply wait for their prey.

This question arouse in my mind basically after when Sunny Leone came into movies and started acting ,giving item numbers along with them,and then came some views of some male colleagues and friends ,as well reviews of female colleagues and friends "Yaar whatever she does but she is just a porn star....,actually an amazing porn star".  Yes I do agree...She is an amazing actress,an amazing lady but why focus on word PORN? Is It so bad? If it is then why did you ever watch it ?
With your friends, bunking the classes,pretending to have group studies and blah blah blah....

It is their job,their profession.Just because she is on screen,because she knows she can act she does it..Like you know you can code you are a developer,Like you know you can choregrograph you are a choreographer....? How about someone says.... "Aaaaah tum to gaano pe logo ko nachwate ho,nachaniya hi ho na....." Dancer is a term given to those people.Every talent has to be respected and every individual who dies it also..Its nothing to make fun of or laugh about.They entertain you ,whatever they do they do it honestly.Why always they,It can be you also at some point of life.

Recently there were FB posts  regarding a newspaper giving the Title "Deepika showed her cleavage...".
I also read few comments on that where Deepika Padukon had written about respect of women and someone commented below stating slang and cursing her stating that its because of these actress the girls of our society are being spoiled....OMG............!

The dresses of the actress influence you so much isn't it?How about getting influenced by the lovely nature of the actors on screen and off screen,They do talk about and also follow the etiquettes of respecting each other.Whatever their co-stars dress up in they do not stare at them with their eyes open....They do make them feel comfortable just like a friend.

A girl or a lady will always remain the same soft hearted,considering some exceptional cases however dirty,cruel her job is...And the man will always remain a human pretending to be strong and love his family and loved ones however dirty or scary his job is.

We all just need to understand that every individual has the right to earn ,for his living by any task they are good at,by any source,Be grateful they at least do not cheat upon you to earn it like our well known politicians....(Shhhh.............!) Respect talent and just do not be judgemental if you do not know them personally.It is just not related to the stars...Its also related to any common individual walking on the road.Who might jut want a warm smile from you and not a smirk to make him feel how low graded you are.....

Be Human..... Practice Humanity.....You will love the peace in you r heart and soul..You ll love to live..... 

"The great advantage of being human is that we can employ rational thought and resolve to change our circumstances."


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